You are having one of those days huh?
Something is just not going to plan,
No matter how hard you try.
It probably feels like the end of the world,
Or like you have just lost control of everything and are on the edge of falling off the cliff!
Surender to what you are feeling, don’t fight it.
The more you resist what is happening the more emotional you get.
When you choose to surrender it’s not giving up or giving in as such.
It’s acknowledging what you are feeling, whats happening right then and there.
There is a big difference.
Because from doing this brings the clarity you need to make good decisions rather than from a place of panic.
A perfect example of this for me is when I am talking with someone and they are trying to get their point across and get really agitated.
I could push back to get my point across, but that just usually ends up with voices being raised and blood starting to boil right.
And then you lose all focus and its becomes a fight to see who gets the last word.
What I do now is breathe, deeply, and it physically gives me the space to step back and look at the situation with fresh eyes.
Once I see whats really happening I am able to decide if I need to push, or accept that this person is not in a space to discuss this right now so move on without causing anymore upset.
Or another example of this for me is when I tore my achilles, four days before my biggest competition I had been training for. I could have totally thrown my toys out of the cot but I decided to surrender to what had happened and I was able to move through what needed to be done calmly.
This is really great for communicating with family members, friends or even clients!
So next time you feel like you are helpless, surrender to the moment and then make your decisions with clarity.
Background: I’ve come through the other side of depression to live a fuller life using the strategies and tools I share in my blogs and on my face book page. My mission is to help others to see that depression is a gift, not an illness and once you can flick that switch in your head you realise you have the power to heal yourself. I had tried all sorts and nothing worked, until I got the courage to look within. Now I help women, and men who suffer from anxiety, overwhelm or depression to take back control of their lives whether it be in business or life.
The catch is I only work with people who are truly committed to change and value themselves enough to start taking action. If this sounds like you book in for a complimentary 30 min strategy session to see how I may be able to help and if we are a good fit.
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